Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Three Cheers For Rachel!

A couple of years ago Rachel came to us and announced that she would like to be a cheerleader when she got to jr. high.  An older sister of a friend had just made the squad and boy did it ever look like fun.

I was a little surprised.  Ballet is her first love and that is where all her focus had been.  But she persisted.
So, reluctantly, I signed her up for a Saturday morning tumbling class.  When she arrived the first day of class, they separated the girls into skill levels.  Rach could do a cartwheel and a round-off.  So she was placed in the beginning level.

The problem?  All the other girls except one were half her size and half her age. She came home that first day feeling embarrassed and a bit humiliated.   We asked her if she was sure this was something she wanted to do.  She thought about it and then repeated a line that she had heard a well loved scout master say, "Don't trade what you want now for what you want most".

Those words became her mantra, her theme, her words to live by.  Week after week she pulled herself out of bed to get to class.  Progress was slow.  Younger girls were quickly moved to a more advanced class while Rachie struggled to do a back-walkover and then a standing back handspring.

Rachel is the first one to raise her hand and admit that she is not naturally flexible.  Her toe touches were not pretty and her splits were nowhere near flat.  But she was determined.  "Don't trade what you want now for what you want most", she muttered to herself every time she felt like sleeping in on a Saturday.

She also began a serious habit of stretching before bed each night.  She did push-ups to help her tumbling.  She wrote messages to herself on the bathroom mirror and on the whiteboard in her bedroom.
Those messages said:
I can do this!
I am strong!
I am a cheerleader!

She studied out scriptures for help and fasted on Fast Sundays.  She wrote on her mirror, "If I do my part, He will do His".

Time passed and improvement was noted.  This year for her birthday, all she asked for was some private lessons to help her nail the round-off back-handspring.

By the time tryouts rolled around last week, she felt ready to give it her best shot.  She used her own money to buy cheer shoes and some new clothes for tryouts.  She went to the clinics and then home to practice until bedtime.  She knew odds were against her as they only take 2 or 3 seventh graders but she stayed focused on the goal.  Mark and I were out of town on her big week, so my sisters stepped in to deliver moral support.

The day of tryouts she went before the judges and did her very best.  She called me when it was over and said, "Mom, if I don't make it, I won't feel bad because I will know that I did every single thing I could have done".

I think she meant those words.  She truly had done every thing she could have possibly done and that's all you can ask of yourself.

Last Thursday we gathered at the school for the big announcement.  Tensions were high and butterflies were plentiful.  We sat there with hearts racing and fingers crossed.  One by one, the current cheerleaders gave a cheer for each girl who made it.

The #5 spot went to Rachel!  (assembly video below)
It was a rewarding moment to see all that hard work pay off.
A real life lesson that anyone can do anything that they put their mind and heart to.

So, three cheers for Rachel.
Three cheers for determination.
Three cheers not trading in what you want now for what you want most.

Hip Hip Hooray!
Hip Hip Hooray!
Hip Hip Hooray!











12 comments:

brees said...

That is great! She is such a sweet girl!!

Terry said...

That is awesome! She so deserves it. I remember when I moved here and the twins were 4 1/2! Crazy! Time is going by way too fast! Tell Rachel congratulations!!

barlowsinuganda.blogspot.com said...

So very, very, very, proud of or Rach!!

Funk Master B said...

Infinite cheers for Rachel! So happy for and proud of her!

Shirlene said...

Way to go Rachel!!! Lauren went through the same frustration with tumbling, so we can totally relate. It takes lots of practice, falling on your head, sore muscles, and tons of determination. We knew you could do it! You'll be a super cute cheerleader, can totally picture you in the cute cheer outfit! Proud of you!

Scarehaircare said...

WTG, Rach! So proud of you!

Emma Barlow said...

We are proud of you Rachel. Your parents knew what they were doing when they called you 'Ra Ra' as a baby. I knew this day would come!!!
Hooray Tiffany

Good for you, what determination! I really admire that about you!
Emma

Melissa said...

Yahoooooo!!!!!

Melissa said...

yahoooooooo!!!!

Angela said...

Awesome! I am sure she will love it. I didn't know she was in tumbling. I loved it. I would have helped her if I had known :)

the holmans said...

Congrats, that is so cool! love when kids develope their talents and WORK hard for somthing! yea!!!

Julie Jones said...

Love that girl!